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Why Walls? Distract and Divert: April Alert

Decision Making· Goals & Priorities· Habits & Routines· Mindset

15 Apr

“I can’t help it.”  Ever said that one, former procrastinators?

Does God buy that?  “A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.” Proverbs 25:28:  ESV

God intends for us to exercise self-control – to submit ourselves to His Holy Spirit’s guidance and power.  The Holy Spirit himself enables us to do that. We’ve looked at Nehemiah’s example of self-control, his faithfulness to persevere in rebuilding the wall – keeping focus, not being distracted or diverted by the efforts of his enemies. He kept his attention on the wall.

Now let’s look at another aspect of wall building.  God refers to walls themselves as good for us. Nehemiah’s wall was a defense.  It represented strength and protection.  It kept out marauders, military enemies, and wild animals.  It emphasized that God dwelt in the city of Jerusalem.

Do you feel plundered? Run over? Out of control?

Appropriate walls are an example of godly self-control. God’s intention (and His equipping for us) is that we establish boundaries and safeguards in our lives that enable us to carry out His direction.  We must respect those boundaries and help others respect them so we’re not distracted and diverted from what God has called us to do within the walls.  (“No.  I have a commitment at that time.”) When the walls come down, life within is plundered.

There will always be resistance to our God-directed priorities.  We pay attention to the state of our walls so that we protect our priorities.  The wall itself becomes a priority. Part of self-control is maintaining our walls and giving attention to the priorities within the walls.

Moms of babies learn the importance of protecting naptime.  Other examples of walls that enable life within:

  • Doing what needs doing when it needs doing  (Procrastination is a wall destroyer.)
  • Having devotions before computer time
  • Limiting extra curriculars to preserve family dinner
  • Establishing bedtime to ensure needed rest for the next day
  • Getting up when the alarm goes off
  • Walking with a partner
  • Setting minutes allowed for screen time and when
  • Filling the gas tank when it reaches half empty
  • Putting a freeze on spending when funds are low
  • Showing patience when colleagues are trying
  • Using a soft tone when others are testy

We can use mini habits and routine to build walls that enable us to focus on priorities.  We can exercise self-control and not fall prey to “I can’t help it” mentality that pulls down our walls and tramples priorities.

Don’t we have to flex?  Certainly. But be alert that repeated flexing pulls down walls.  The Holy Spirit gives discernment regarding what is a “divine diversion” from Him.  Usually the challenge is to hold steady on the priority He’s already given.

Nehemiah rebuilt the wall for the sake of life inside it.  He rebuilt it because it was a safeguard.  He rebuilt it to glorify God.

What wall can you set up today that will protect your God-directed priorities?

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  1. Viki says

    April 15, 2019 at 7:30 am

    I am living each day with a renewed heart for studying scripture and a renewed determination that i will do prayer time and devotional as well as reading the bible every morning before I start my day- whether it will be a super busy one or a more calm day. the past year has been less stressful, more reasonable scheduling and a few more “no’s” said to things that take my focus away from my goals to study and pray daily before anything else. it’s still difficult, but part of this journey has involved you, ms Beth! I’ve taken many of your suggestions and thoughts and put them in place! I still procrastinate, but i am improving ! Thank you for your thoughts, your time, and your stories!
    Thank you for coming to Lifesong to talk to the girls and to the coaches! We needed it! viki bozeman

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    • Beth Sterne says

      April 16, 2019 at 11:13 am

      Viki, You are such an encouragement and good example to me. Thank you! I still struggle with procrastination too, but, like yours, my life is changing. I’m so grateful for God’s faithfulness to walk with us as we step along. Your smile and role playing at lifesong were a boost for me. And Fun! I’m sure you’ve boosted all the women at lifesong as they’ve committed to change under the Lord. May He bless you richly.

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Go to the ant, you sluggard;
consider its ways and be wise! It has
no commander, no overseer or ruler,
yet it stores its provisions in summer
and gathers its food at harvest.
Proverbs 6:6-8
... you have put off the old man with
his deeds, and have put on the new
man who is renewed in knowledge
according to the image of Him who
created him.
Colossians 3:9-10

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