What a Woman!  –  Proverbs in Practice

The words “slothful” and “sluggard,” former procrastinators, are not used in Proverbs 31. It does say “She does not eat the bread of idleness.”  No kidding!  The description of the woman who fears the Lord – or of the virtuous wife – is a bit overwhelming because she is so diligent.  Whew.  Who could do all that?  It is abundantly clear that she’s no slouch and that she serves as an example to us to be diligent too. She’s an illustration, an encouragement, not a template we must be exactly like, but an example to learn from and apply as God directs in our lives.

Let’s notice some general traits in Proverbs 31:10-31.

• Above all, she fears the Lord.  That’s why she is praised.  That’s why she acts as she does.

• She is praised because of her work and the fruit, the results of her work, not just her intentions.

• Little or nothing is said about her mothering or marital interactions, however, because her children and husband praise her as blessed and excellent, we can assume she gives them high priority and serves them well – while tending to numerous responsibilities.

• She demonstrates doing what needs doing when it needs doing.  (Up early and late, planting, prepares the household for winter)

• She shows regard for her husband (Trustworthy, does him good. Her management of home allows him to participate in the community.  Conducts herself with dignity.  Dresses thoughtfully.)

• She labors physically with a willing attitude.

• She has or develops a business sense which she uses to benefit the family.

• She does things she surely must not feel like and may find uncomfortable. 

• She does things that could make her feel sorry for herself.  (Up early and late tending to the needs of others.)

• She does things that are tiring, demanding.

• She goes beyond her home to acquire needed supplies. (No Amazon)

• She uses her brain, her physical strength, and her voice.

• She speaks with wisdom and kindness. (This is how she conducts herself habitually in spite of all her responsibilities.)

• She has servants (a help) which adds more responsibilities of care and management.

• She has a heart for others and serves the needy herself.

• She shows regard for herself. (Physically and mentally keeps herself strong. Recognizes the quality of her work.  Dresses thoughtfully.)

Let me commend you for being a Proverbs 31 woman.  Learning to put off procrastination shows you want to abide in the Vine and be Christlike.  It shows a willingness to change and an application of effort.  Sisters, we are in this together.  The Lord is working in and through us.  Glory to His name!

Which characteristics on this list do you especially identify with?