One reason, former procrastinators, that I put off writing a thank you is that my heart is so full. This is especially true when someone has long been deeply significant in my life or was used briefly in a significant way. I don’t know what to say or how to say it. There’s so much I could say that it seems too much for a letter. Or I figure what was important to me would be viewed as insignificant by someone else. I think, “I really should express my gratitude for his or her influence, but…” and so I put it off. Does this sound like you?
By expressing our gratitude we can bring the other person encouragement, insight, joy, peace, and the wonderful discovery that he or she has been used by the Lord in a lasting way. We also share joy together and a deeper connection with them and others.
Let’s thank those people who have influenced us greatly and helped to shape our lives.
My parents and a couple of teachers were huge influences on me, but I began to benefit from others in college. A local couple took me and other students underwing. They helped us get rooted and grounded in the Christian faith through scriptural teaching and including us in their lives. A series of young men lead Bible studies; one sacrificed hours of time to drive to us weekly.
When the Air Force moved my husband and me sixteen times, the Lord provided good teaching and fellowship in every place. Some of those folks were just for a particular time and location. Others became lifelong friends whose visions, understanding, counsel, examples, love, and prayers continue to shape us. We value them beyond measure.
Whether you had one-on-one discipleship or not, there are people God has used to help shape your life. A pastor, Sunday School teacher, school teacher, professor, employer, fellow employee, friend, relative, author whose book you read or song you treasure. Ponder what you have learned from that person and the ways you have benefitted because of him or her. They have been instruments of God in your life.
Maybe it was a recipe and a happy memory, a deep study of a book of scripture, a silent vigil while you grieved, faithful prayers on your behalf. Maybe these phrases will help jumpstart your ponderings and help you write a letter of gratitude.
Because of your…, I have the confidence to…
You helped me learn to… / You taught me to…
I remember your words of wisdom about…
I often recall your…
I share your words with others when…
God used you to …
Your prayers have helped me to…
In you and your family, I saw…
Let’s thank God for those people He’s used – and thank those people.
Enjoy considering God’s instrumental people in your life. Who will you bless with a letter?
This is fantastic! Thank you so much for the reminder to write more thank you in Kay life! I love that you have personal examples!!
Patty, I’m glad this is helpful. Enjoy thinking about your blessings and expressing thanks. You are a blessing yourself!
What an excellent idea! Furthermore, it has always helped me to encourage others when I need encouragement myself. “Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.” Proverbs 11:25
This is good counsel, Phyllis. “Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.” You must be well-watered! Thank you!