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Making Work for Myself

Freedom· Habits & Routines

18 Apr

As a former procrastinator, I often “hear” something my mother used to say to me. My mom would observe my roundabout way of approaching a chore or see me do something that would cause me to do more work later. She’d say, “You’re making work for yourself.” I can’t recall what I did that prompted the comment, but I’m glad her words stick in my mind.

Now I often catch myself when I’m about to create a complication that will demand more time and attention from me later than if I act right now. It’s another application of Proverbs 15:19. “The way of a sluggard is like a hedge of thorns, but the path of the upright is a level highway.” ESV

I can cause briars to spring up in my path right away or to show up later. Either way they’re a pain. I have plenty of work to do without making more for myself.

God graciously prompts me to notice, choose wisely, and experience the thrill of realizing I just made a smooth path for myself. Nice!

Responsibilities cannot always be streamlined, but often they can be. If I do what needs doing when it needs doing, I eliminate future work. We might think a chore is inconvenient at the moment. However, the extra work usually shows up at a much less convenient time later. (Think lots of pick up when the doorbell rings!)

Here are a few simple examples:

Dropping my jacket on a chair instead of hanging it in the closet.

Leaving dirty dishes on the table instead of washing them or putting them in soak.

Piling clean laundry to wrinkle in a heap so I have to search for an item or iron what would’ve been fine had I hung it up.

Setting tax papers, receipts, or maintenance info on the counter instead of filing them in their assigned places.

Waiting to pull new weeds in the yard instead of digging them out before they grow strong.

Allowing trash to remain in the car instead of removing it when I get out.

Delaying the dry cleaning instead of taking it now so I will have the dress when I need it.

Jotting a random grocery list instead of using the general layout of the store.

Driving randomly instead of consolidating errands and planning the route.

Doing something myself quickly instead of taking the time to teach my child how to do it.

What can you do at the moment that will avoid increased work for yourself later?

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  1. Elena Schuenemeyer says

    April 18, 2016 at 8:44 am

    It took years of practice! It does seem easier now that I’ve empty nested:)
    The one I have to work at is the pile of laundry. I ALWAYS wait until I have a mountain! It’s laundry day today. I’ll try to make this work:) Thanks for sharing such a valuable tool.

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    • Beth Sterne says

      April 18, 2016 at 9:48 pm

      You can do it, Elena! What exactly took years of practice? Learning not to make work for yourself? I’m with you.

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  2. Lynn Bond says

    April 23, 2016 at 12:19 pm

    An example for me is if I have a telephone call to make and actually have the time to do it, but set the number on the counter to do later. I heard somewhere that having to look at things over and over that need to be done is tiring and can cause us to feel depressed. It’s something I still have to work on changing, and there are other things I “leave for another day” too when I could just as well take care of them. I’m going to try to take care of some of those things today!

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    • Beth Sterne says

      April 23, 2016 at 4:44 pm

      Yea! Lynn! Did you do some of them? 🙂

      Thank you for saying this: “Looking at things over and over that need to be done is tiring and can cause us to feel depressed.” Yes! That really gets me down and irritates me. I feel a weight that interferes with other things.

      If you do have time to do the thing – DWNDWIND – Do what needs doing when it needs doing, girl! (Three fingers back at me.) If I can’t at the time, I put a huge note on the kitchen floor to remind me. That’s the place I’m most likely to see it – and so does everyone else. Not a suggestion, just a confession!

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Go to the ant, you sluggard;
consider its ways and be wise! It has
no commander, no overseer or ruler,
yet it stores its provisions in summer
and gathers its food at harvest.
Proverbs 6:6-8
... you have put off the old man with
his deeds, and have put on the new
man who is renewed in knowledge
according to the image of Him who
created him.
Colossians 3:9-10

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